Moving. This is the one thing I hope comes to fruition this year. It is the reason Alex and I took a road trip to the Smoky Mountains, to find our future home. We did. However, in order to get there one of us needs a job or enough savings to buy us some time once we get there. This is where YNAB comes in. I just finished an online class about starting my budget and I scheduled two more classes over the weekend just to make sure I have all my bases covered. I want to be debt free with money in savings.Who doesn't! I find myself jealous of my well paid friends. Why can't I be that carefree? Ok, maybe I don't make that kind of money and neither does Alex but with a good budget there is no reason we can't live comfortably and with little to no worry. We'll get there. It is just going to take us time.
I decided not to make any resolutions this year. There are many things I hope Alex and I will do/accomplish this coming year but who knows where life will take us. I think my mom wrote it best:
"I SEE GREAT THINGS & BIG ADVENTURES IN Y'ALLS FUTURE!
Let the NEW YEAR blogs begin :)"
and so they have...
When I was little I remember Christmas being so magical and fun. My parents used to do a big Christmas tree and it was full of ornaments from our childhood but it hasn't been put back up since all the kids moved away for college. So for the past several years I have put forth just enough effort to not be a scrooge. I decorated a few small fake Christmas trees around my house and put a fake wreath of cranberries on the front door and called it a day. However, this year Alex and I are spending Christmas under the same roof for the first time and I truly feel like I am in the Christmas spirit again.
We have been mixing old traditions and finding new ones and I think we have navigated this merger spectacularly. For starters, we have a real Christmas tree with two different sets of lights, multicolored for Alex and plain white for me. We also will have a Christmas Eve tradition from Alex's family in which Alex will be reading aloud a pirates version of a Christmas story. And I will be contributing my family's tradition with a visit from Santa Mouse who leaves a movie in your stocking every year. I know these will grow and change but I will cherish this first Christmas and the combining of two families traditions into one.


